yes i think you really should still love your ex . there is nothing wrong . Letting yourself stay in love with your ex will keep you distracted from. Your ex may send you mixed signals or keep being undecided about what he wants. I don't care who this guy is and how much you love him. When the love for your ex resides somewhere deep in your heart, you can't help but look out for ways to keep it alive. You'd want to know what your ex is up to.