Maybe you're with a guy and you feel like things are going really well. And maybe you're feeling really tempted to say “I love you. In a relationship, who do you think is more likely to say “I love you ” first — men or women? If you are like most people, you might be tempted to say women. Once it's out there, you can start saying it every day. Once it's out there, you can start saying it every day. Hearing a partner say "I love you " for the first time is regarded as one of the highlights of a romantic relationship. However, people are often. My feeling is that you should let him say it first. I say that because him saying it first to you means a lot more than you saying it to him first When he says it to.